From my January Talking Meme.
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shadowscast asked for Three wonderful moments in Avatar canon that you'd like to draw attention to, and why
1) The Southern Air Temple and value of rewatching. First moment is when Aang, the titular Avatar, a 12 years old boy, sees the skeleton of Monk Gyatso, who was his friend, teacher and a father figure. The skeleton is surrounded by the skeletons in remnants of Fire Nation uniform. It looks like Monk Gyatso killed them all, and was killed himself. It is a horrible and tragic moment when we watch it the first time, this is the moment when Aang believes that he truly is the last one of his people, the last airbender…
But when we re-watch the series, with the knowledge of the world and bits of Air Nomad culture, and we know how big of a deal was pacifism and avoidance of violence in Aang’s culture, his shock and horror at seeing that a man who basically was his parent had killed a lot of people is so much stronger. And his choice to hold on to those values is much more profound.
2) The Boiling Rock, part 2. Well, both parts of it are very good, but by the end of part 2 there is “Everything seems lost, when the last minute rescue happens” moment that’s the result of two seasons of character development of Azula, Mai, Ty Lee and Zuko, and it is so very good and satisfying. It’s amazing when you don’t know what will happen, and it’s just as good to watch every time after that. The look on Zuko’s face, Mai’s precisely calculated words that cut deeper than her knives, Ty Lee’s shock… everything is perfect.
3) Sokka and shopping. If was probably a one time throwaway joke, but with repetitions it grew into something more. So, Sokka, a 16 year old boy, delights in the process of shopping, especially for things he doesn’t really need. And his friends and his sister know that and happily indulge him, and even suggest “shopping therapy” when he is feeling low. On the surface, it is a deconstruction of our ideas of masculinity and femininity. It’s not inherently feminine to love shopping, and it doesn’t make anyone manly to sneer at love for pretty things. But why does Sokka love shopping so much? He grew up in a tiny South pole Water Tribe village. If he needed food, he had to hunt for it. If he needed weapons – he had to make them himself. If he needed clothes – womenfolk provided him with clothes they made. Occasionally, I guess, the merchant ship could show up with other necessary stuff to be bartered. There was no shopping. There were hardly any cool unnecessary things at all. So, traveling through Earth kingdom and Fire nation towns and seeing shops with random stuff was indeed pretty revelatory and exciting. I mean, I remember myself in the beginning of 90s, when we suddenly had shops with crazy random stuff. I would just go in and stare. I didn’t need dried sea urchins or giant plushies, but knowing that one can just buy them was pretty exciting... So: from a random joke to a meaningful character trait! One of the reasons I love Avatar the Last Airbender.
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1) The Southern Air Temple and value of rewatching. First moment is when Aang, the titular Avatar, a 12 years old boy, sees the skeleton of Monk Gyatso, who was his friend, teacher and a father figure. The skeleton is surrounded by the skeletons in remnants of Fire Nation uniform. It looks like Monk Gyatso killed them all, and was killed himself. It is a horrible and tragic moment when we watch it the first time, this is the moment when Aang believes that he truly is the last one of his people, the last airbender…
But when we re-watch the series, with the knowledge of the world and bits of Air Nomad culture, and we know how big of a deal was pacifism and avoidance of violence in Aang’s culture, his shock and horror at seeing that a man who basically was his parent had killed a lot of people is so much stronger. And his choice to hold on to those values is much more profound.
2) The Boiling Rock, part 2. Well, both parts of it are very good, but by the end of part 2 there is “Everything seems lost, when the last minute rescue happens” moment that’s the result of two seasons of character development of Azula, Mai, Ty Lee and Zuko, and it is so very good and satisfying. It’s amazing when you don’t know what will happen, and it’s just as good to watch every time after that. The look on Zuko’s face, Mai’s precisely calculated words that cut deeper than her knives, Ty Lee’s shock… everything is perfect.
3) Sokka and shopping. If was probably a one time throwaway joke, but with repetitions it grew into something more. So, Sokka, a 16 year old boy, delights in the process of shopping, especially for things he doesn’t really need. And his friends and his sister know that and happily indulge him, and even suggest “shopping therapy” when he is feeling low. On the surface, it is a deconstruction of our ideas of masculinity and femininity. It’s not inherently feminine to love shopping, and it doesn’t make anyone manly to sneer at love for pretty things. But why does Sokka love shopping so much? He grew up in a tiny South pole Water Tribe village. If he needed food, he had to hunt for it. If he needed weapons – he had to make them himself. If he needed clothes – womenfolk provided him with clothes they made. Occasionally, I guess, the merchant ship could show up with other necessary stuff to be bartered. There was no shopping. There were hardly any cool unnecessary things at all. So, traveling through Earth kingdom and Fire nation towns and seeing shops with random stuff was indeed pretty revelatory and exciting. I mean, I remember myself in the beginning of 90s, when we suddenly had shops with crazy random stuff. I would just go in and stare. I didn’t need dried sea urchins or giant plushies, but knowing that one can just buy them was pretty exciting... So: from a random joke to a meaningful character trait! One of the reasons I love Avatar the Last Airbender.
Season 7 of Buffy the Vampire Slayer now
Jan. 7th, 2020 01:12 pmFrom my January Talking Meme.
You can still ask a lot of questions!
elisi asked something about Buffy S7
Well, I haven’t watched Buffy in a long time. About what, five years? I mean, I have re-watched it several times after I got the dvds, and at some point it felt like the whole thing just lives in my head. It still is, really.
So, yes, I still love season 7 of Buffy and more over, I think it grew more relevant with time. I mean, Buffy got out of her grave and 20th century all at once. They use cell phones! Willow actually “googles” stuff – it probably was the first use of that word as a verb on tv! Andrew and Jonathan are fine examples of fine young men who dominated Internet landscape in the past twenty years. They are not its worst examples, but…
There is a bit of conscious striving for more diversity. There is the knowledge that the worst evil is working from inside of us. There is the knowledge that everything is connected, and it’s connected by love – not necessarily romantic one. That we are stronger together, and we can make a choice to be strong, to support each other and be stronger because of it.
Also, please check your local cemetery – there might be a crypt where an elderly woman with a scythe waits for her time.
And since quite a bit of time passed since 2003, that woman might be you.
Yes I love season 7 of BtVS. :)
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Well, I haven’t watched Buffy in a long time. About what, five years? I mean, I have re-watched it several times after I got the dvds, and at some point it felt like the whole thing just lives in my head. It still is, really.
So, yes, I still love season 7 of Buffy and more over, I think it grew more relevant with time. I mean, Buffy got out of her grave and 20th century all at once. They use cell phones! Willow actually “googles” stuff – it probably was the first use of that word as a verb on tv! Andrew and Jonathan are fine examples of fine young men who dominated Internet landscape in the past twenty years. They are not its worst examples, but…
There is a bit of conscious striving for more diversity. There is the knowledge that the worst evil is working from inside of us. There is the knowledge that everything is connected, and it’s connected by love – not necessarily romantic one. That we are stronger together, and we can make a choice to be strong, to support each other and be stronger because of it.
Also, please check your local cemetery – there might be a crypt where an elderly woman with a scythe waits for her time.
And since quite a bit of time passed since 2003, that woman might be you.
Yes I love season 7 of BtVS. :)
Cranberry trees
Jan. 6th, 2020 08:03 pmFrom my January Talking Meme.
You can still ask questions!
selenak asked about most annoying to you clichés about Russian characters in Western media
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Cranberries don’t grow on trees, of course. It is an old joke in Russia – used since 19th century to mock ridiculous tales of foreigners told about Russia. Foreigners would come visit – for business, on diplomatic missions, exploring or just traveling for fun - and then wrote about what they saw. Some of it was truth, some – misunderstandings, some – parts of the whole, some outrages fantasies or whatnot. There were never accounts of cranberries (Oxycóccus) that grow on trees, but highbush cranberry is English name for (Vibúrnum ópulus), a totally different plant with red berries that do grow on trees. So it’s both truth and a hilarious image of a tired stereotype of weird mysterious Russia.
If I to study Russia by popular movies and tv series I would have learned that it’s always winter there. That it’s populated by beautiful young women who are all study in their ballet schools to be perfect spies and assassins. And who – if not killed in time - suddenly turn into old and weird and wrinkled baba yaga-like elderly women, without a missing link.
And ugly brutish men of all ages who only eat vodka and do crime.
And there are indeterminate grey masses who don’t do anything.
Stereotypes are changing with the times – it used to be all shiny princes and princess vs. unwashed masses, then just unwashed masses, then spies, than criminals, and then criminals and spies…
What annoys me most is not even that those stereotypes exist… Let’s face it: Russia does have cold winter, and criminals, and spies, and ballet, and vodka is being drunk as we speak. But there are so much more, and nobody cares. Movie after movie is being made with spy heroines - but we made her so cool! She is, like, a strong woman! And so sexy! And I am tired. There are quite a lot of Russian and former USSR emigration in USA, Canada and the rest of the world these days. They do all kind of stuff, work all kinds of jobs – there are a lot of actors and actresses with Soviet (not necessarily Russian) background, and I see them portraying Russian mobsters, criminals and spies only…
There are few exceptions and I had to dig in strange places to find them. Like take Jupiter Ascending. It’s strange to point at this movie as a good example of anything, but I am grateful that Russian emigrants in it are weird but regular folk, and Jupiter does unglamourous but regular and legal work (or are they illegal aliens? And all they do therefore illegal? They don’t do crimes as a regular job, anyway)
There are other glimpses and I find myself cheering for them. But mostly, writers are inserting Russians in story for exotic purposes and easy villains and such. It’s not that anyone is going to complain… And if they do, one can always point at Russia’s actual problems and tell them to fix all and then come back.
And the thing is… Russians are not going to complain. But for a different reasons. I actually asked friends in Russia about that issue of representation of Russia in Hollywood, and they mostly laugh and say, “Americans are all idiots, what else can one expect of them?”
Well.
My issue with the pervasive stereotypes is that they divide people, they put us all in little boxes and help us dehumanize each other. We really don’t need to dehumanized each other ever, but especially right now, in this harsh and brittle political climate.
Another thing – thinking beyond stereotypes makes for better stories. Take Agent Carter. I loved the series, but the discovery that Dottie Underwood was Russian from the Black Widow program, and the whole Russian storyline was the worst for me, because it made no sense. Everyone cheered, but the thing was she was an empty doll, not a character who was supposedly trained in Russia. It was 1946. Just after WWII, which was a huge trauma for everyone in USSR, everyone was affected, everyone lost someone. What did she do? Whom did she lost? How it affected her personally? Just a little bit of meaningful personal information would have made her a more interesting character.
I hate the line that Natasha says in the Avengers “Regimes fall every day. I tend not to weep over that, I'm Russian. Or I used to be.” Because it doesn’t make any sense! In Russia regimes don’t fall everyday. She might have said as a spy, sure, but not connected to being Russian.::headdeask::
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Cranberries don’t grow on trees, of course. It is an old joke in Russia – used since 19th century to mock ridiculous tales of foreigners told about Russia. Foreigners would come visit – for business, on diplomatic missions, exploring or just traveling for fun - and then wrote about what they saw. Some of it was truth, some – misunderstandings, some – parts of the whole, some outrages fantasies or whatnot. There were never accounts of cranberries (Oxycóccus) that grow on trees, but highbush cranberry is English name for (Vibúrnum ópulus), a totally different plant with red berries that do grow on trees. So it’s both truth and a hilarious image of a tired stereotype of weird mysterious Russia.
If I to study Russia by popular movies and tv series I would have learned that it’s always winter there. That it’s populated by beautiful young women who are all study in their ballet schools to be perfect spies and assassins. And who – if not killed in time - suddenly turn into old and weird and wrinkled baba yaga-like elderly women, without a missing link.
And ugly brutish men of all ages who only eat vodka and do crime.
And there are indeterminate grey masses who don’t do anything.
Stereotypes are changing with the times – it used to be all shiny princes and princess vs. unwashed masses, then just unwashed masses, then spies, than criminals, and then criminals and spies…
What annoys me most is not even that those stereotypes exist… Let’s face it: Russia does have cold winter, and criminals, and spies, and ballet, and vodka is being drunk as we speak. But there are so much more, and nobody cares. Movie after movie is being made with spy heroines - but we made her so cool! She is, like, a strong woman! And so sexy! And I am tired. There are quite a lot of Russian and former USSR emigration in USA, Canada and the rest of the world these days. They do all kind of stuff, work all kinds of jobs – there are a lot of actors and actresses with Soviet (not necessarily Russian) background, and I see them portraying Russian mobsters, criminals and spies only…
There are few exceptions and I had to dig in strange places to find them. Like take Jupiter Ascending. It’s strange to point at this movie as a good example of anything, but I am grateful that Russian emigrants in it are weird but regular folk, and Jupiter does unglamourous but regular and legal work (or are they illegal aliens? And all they do therefore illegal? They don’t do crimes as a regular job, anyway)
There are other glimpses and I find myself cheering for them. But mostly, writers are inserting Russians in story for exotic purposes and easy villains and such. It’s not that anyone is going to complain… And if they do, one can always point at Russia’s actual problems and tell them to fix all and then come back.
And the thing is… Russians are not going to complain. But for a different reasons. I actually asked friends in Russia about that issue of representation of Russia in Hollywood, and they mostly laugh and say, “Americans are all idiots, what else can one expect of them?”
Well.
My issue with the pervasive stereotypes is that they divide people, they put us all in little boxes and help us dehumanize each other. We really don’t need to dehumanized each other ever, but especially right now, in this harsh and brittle political climate.
Another thing – thinking beyond stereotypes makes for better stories. Take Agent Carter. I loved the series, but the discovery that Dottie Underwood was Russian from the Black Widow program, and the whole Russian storyline was the worst for me, because it made no sense. Everyone cheered, but the thing was she was an empty doll, not a character who was supposedly trained in Russia. It was 1946. Just after WWII, which was a huge trauma for everyone in USSR, everyone was affected, everyone lost someone. What did she do? Whom did she lost? How it affected her personally? Just a little bit of meaningful personal information would have made her a more interesting character.
I hate the line that Natasha says in the Avengers “Regimes fall every day. I tend not to weep over that, I'm Russian. Or I used to be.” Because it doesn’t make any sense! In Russia regimes don’t fall everyday. She might have said as a spy, sure, but not connected to being Russian.::headdeask::
From my January Talking Meme.
You can still ask a lot of questions!
this one is answer to
eglantiere's question.
The short answer is tv series. I have no idea why, to be honest.
I love reading books the most, and my tastes are not necessarily obscure - I love all kinds of books, out of fiction it's mostly science fiction and fantasy, but I was never driven to fandom of books. Even Harry Potter fandom passed me by, as I was watching it from sidelines. I loved the books and bought the last two the first day I could and read them immediately, but I never felt that special kind of fire.
When I think about it now, I think that maybe reading is too solitary for me. it's all between my brain and the book, and while I will happily discuss stuff from the books I read, and even search for artwork, I am not as driven to engage with community about any particular book or books.
anime is mostly unexplored territory for me. I watched a little, and never was seriously engaged.
movies... I don't know. I have pretty mass culture taste. I enjoy Marvel Cinematic Universe, etc. But not enough to be passionate about it.
and tv... all my fannish feelings come from various tv shows. my main fandom is Buffy (still is, even as it's hardly active), but even before that, before I knew the word "fandom", tv shows affected me in a very special way - the acute need to seek like-minded people and talk to them.
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The short answer is tv series. I have no idea why, to be honest.
I love reading books the most, and my tastes are not necessarily obscure - I love all kinds of books, out of fiction it's mostly science fiction and fantasy, but I was never driven to fandom of books. Even Harry Potter fandom passed me by, as I was watching it from sidelines. I loved the books and bought the last two the first day I could and read them immediately, but I never felt that special kind of fire.
When I think about it now, I think that maybe reading is too solitary for me. it's all between my brain and the book, and while I will happily discuss stuff from the books I read, and even search for artwork, I am not as driven to engage with community about any particular book or books.
anime is mostly unexplored territory for me. I watched a little, and never was seriously engaged.
movies... I don't know. I have pretty mass culture taste. I enjoy Marvel Cinematic Universe, etc. But not enough to be passionate about it.
and tv... all my fannish feelings come from various tv shows. my main fandom is Buffy (still is, even as it's hardly active), but even before that, before I knew the word "fandom", tv shows affected me in a very special way - the acute need to seek like-minded people and talk to them.
January Talking Meme
Dec. 4th, 2019 12:22 pmStolen from
selenak I've never done before, I think.
Pick a date below and give me a topic, and I'll ramble on. I'm good at talking. It can be anything from fandom-related (specific characters, actors, storylines, episodes, etc.) to life-related to pizza preferences to whatever you want.
They will probably be brief, or not, depending on the subject. Also, I reserve the right to decline prompts that I don't feel equipped to meet.
Topics: you can get an idea from my tags/from the stuff I usually ramble about/from things you maybe wish I talked about more but don't.
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Pick a date below and give me a topic, and I'll ramble on. I'm good at talking. It can be anything from fandom-related (specific characters, actors, storylines, episodes, etc.) to life-related to pizza preferences to whatever you want.
They will probably be brief, or not, depending on the subject. Also, I reserve the right to decline prompts that I don't feel equipped to meet.
Topics: you can get an idea from my tags/from the stuff I usually ramble about/from things you maybe wish I talked about more but don't.
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I can't think of one name. I am pretty sure I like some, but don't remember the name, and by the end of holiday season all songs become some kind of homogeneous noise in my head.
so: the next best thing - a scene from Desk Set where Katharine Hepburn's Bunny is very drunk and jolly. She does sing "Jingle bells" at some point, but I couldn't find that clip.
I need to watch the movie again.
so: the next best thing - a scene from Desk Set where Katharine Hepburn's Bunny is very drunk and jolly. She does sing "Jingle bells" at some point, but I couldn't find that clip.
I need to watch the movie again.
Well, I've been thinking about his entry, and then it was decided for me. Kind of. I closed my eyes, opened it and found, like Sleeping Beauty, that an eternity had passed while I was sleeping - whole two hours. Two hours of quiet! What can be more beautiful?
I can't show you the picute of me sleeping, so this is what D. was doing while I slept:

I can't show you the picute of me sleeping, so this is what D. was doing while I slept:

I passionately dislike wrapping presents. Mostly because I feel that I waste a lot of money to buy it, a lot of time to wrap presents, and derive no pleasure in unwrapping it. So I do wrapping only for society functions - birthday, school, parties.
Instead I present candy wrappers. As I child I had an impressive collection of those. And sometimes, we would wrap them in the shape of candies and hang on our Christmas/New Year tree...

now I just throw them away, but I still like to unwrap candies. ;)
Instead I present candy wrappers. As I child I had an impressive collection of those. And sometimes, we would wrap them in the shape of candies and hang on our Christmas/New Year tree...

now I just throw them away, but I still like to unwrap candies. ;)
It was an endlessly gloomy day on Sunday, and we had nowhere to go if we didn't want to spend money (we didn't). So we stayed home, and there was astoundingly much time to read. And - surprisingly - I had the perfect book for such occasion, Gillian Bradshaw's Beacon at Alexandria

http://www.amazon.com/Beacon-Alexandria-The-Hera-Series/dp/1569470103/
it is often recommended, and with a good reason. but now I wonder, should I read more of Gillian Bradshaw, and what else of her to read? so it would end reasonably well for the protagonists?

http://www.amazon.com/Beacon-Alexandria-The-Hera-Series/dp/1569470103/
it is often recommended, and with a good reason. but now I wonder, should I read more of Gillian Bradshaw, and what else of her to read? so it would end reasonably well for the protagonists?
Capturing December - Day 6: Shopping
Dec. 7th, 2012 09:50 pmShopping. I did the shopping, I was at the temple of shopping where I worshiped consumerism and bought stuff I didn't plan to buy spending the money I don't have. I am too annoyed by the experience to post a picture of my loot. But D. is happy – he got a doctor's kit from a dollar store, and for the second day he is enthusiastically healing his stuffed animals (no, he didn't express any interest in doctors' stuff before, only now, after he played with his friends with their medical kit, he realized it's fun). So. There won't be shopping pictures right now.