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so I probably won't.

it was a pleasantly busy time - my sister with her family visited, and we went on adventure around California.

I keep trying to make sense of Tumblr, but not very successfully. I have some likes, and a handful of inexplicable followers, but I cannot actually to talk to anyone, the way I used to here, or on LJ.

Still writing fanfiction (nothing new posted yet, but oh, so many ideas!)

The world is still mostly depressing. I found I cannot do activism - I feel sad, I feel angry, I occasionally send a bit of money here or there, but even to reblog stuff - not to mention go somewhere physically is so much beyond me... I am not sure what it says about me.

anyway, instead here is my Judith Krantz obituary:

I read I’ll take Manhattan back in 90s, when stuff like that started appearing in Russia. I read in in one day in a weird daze – everything was so shiny, colorful and felt like a fantasy novel – full of words and things that had no meaning for me. Now I know it’s a fantasy for American readers as well, but it stayed with me through all these years nevertheless. Other books had less of an impact, but were also a fun ride. I am afraid to re-read it now, but grateful to Judith Krantz for hours of fun I had with her books.

I started to read about her - she had very interesting parents:

her father, Jack Tarcher, who as the head of an advertising agency gave his daughter a job designing a campaign for a new line of Coty lipstick when she was a teen-ager. (Young Judy hated the work, but the ads were good enough to be used.) Her mother, Mickey Brager, lived with Jack for a year before they married, a daring thing to do in the twenties, then went back to school, earned a baccalaureate degree, a master’s degree in economics, and a law degree, and spent the rest of her working life with the Legal Aid Society. She was also a co-founder of New York’s Liberal Party.

I kind of want a book about them.

and here is Judith's quote that's perfect:

“I write the best books that I know how; I can’t write any better than this,” she told The Los Angeles Times in 1990. “People think that because I had a good education, I’m not writing on the level that I should. They think I’m harboring some slim little intellectual volume, that I am really Isaac Bashevis Singer in disguise.”

Date: 2019-06-29 12:09 am (UTC)
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The world is still mostly depressing. I found I cannot do activism - I feel sad, I feel angry, I occasionally send a bit of money here or there, but even to reblog stuff - not to mention go somewhere physically is so much beyond me... I am not sure what it says about me.

Feel the same way.

Yep. Me too. I tried. Hard. And it...well, I still feel the rage. And the rage isn't good for me.

And I can't march in crowds for hours, or carry signs, or phone representatives, or send out fliers, or lead protests. I can send money, but that's it. Also I can't house people -- I have a small apartment there's no room. Nor am I found of cooking, cleaning or having people on top of me. I would kill them all within a month or go crazy.

So, I fund the people who can, and try to ignore it as much as possible. For a while I felt guilty about -- now, I don't. Not everyone can do this, and that's okay. I do other things that make the world better, and to my knowledge I'm not adding to the crazy or the harm.

Re Judith Krantz -- thanks for that, very reassuring. I did read her too -- I think I read I'll Take Manhattan, Scruples, and the revenge one...also watched the mini-series, which were great fun. She was sort of the female version of Harold Robbins, and I thought a better writer than the popular Jaqueline Suzanne and Robbins (who was somewhat misogynistic and not that great). My parents had these books somehow, and I read them as a teen. They were great fun. Krantz was less risque than Rosemary Rogers and Kathleen Woodwis, and a little less...well, graphic.

Date: 2019-06-29 12:21 am (UTC)
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I keep trying to make sense of Tumblr, but not very successfully.

I have never even tried to figure out Tumblr, so you're ahead of me at least!

Date: 2019-07-01 07:49 pm (UTC)
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It's a totally different culture that grows there.

That's interesting! I can imagine how that would make it hard to make sense of it.

When I decided to return to doing some active participation in fandom after years away, I made a very conscious decision to do so only in a way that felt comfortable and manageable, even if it means that I'm still barely participating. Thus: using nothing but DreamWidth (and AO3).

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